Christina Milian's mom is speaking out for the first time since her soon-to-be ex son-in-law was busted getting cozy with his assistant in the Caribbean. HipHollywood's Kevin Frazier spoke exclusively to Carmen Milian, and she told us that the only thing she is focused on right now is the well-being of her daughter and grandchild. "I love them both so much and that is all I care about right now. I want to make sure that I protect my daughter and granddaughter."

Carmen had absolutely nothing to say about The Dream and added that, as a rule, she tries stay out of her kids’ romantic endeavors. "I don't get involved in any of my children’s relationships. What they do is up to them". She went on to explain that Milian and her family refuse to get caught up in bashing The Dream, as they are more concerned with getting through this difficult time.

Christina was photographed earlier in the week still wearing her wedding ring and according to reports, she was completely blindsided by her husband’s apparent affair.

The Dream released a statement a short time after the scandalous pictures surfaced, claiming that the couple had been separated since earlier this year. Actress Elise Neal seemed to back that claim when she told HipHollywood that she’d heard from several friends that the couple was going through some turbulent times. “Some friends close to their circle had unfortunately told me that they were having some problems. I don’t know anything and I haven’t seen any pictures, so I don’t know what kind of craziness has come out. But I did hear that they were having problems and I’m not surprised to hear that they’ve separated,” Neal remarked.

Christina and her team have yet to release an official statement and her mom believes that there’s nothing left to say about the situation. "Christina is doing fine and that’s all we want to say for now."